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| Gopa, Remya, Me and Neena with all the kids and their moms. |
As of right now, things are very 'day to day' with Jasons job here. Last week at this time, we thought we'd be leaving. Today, we're still hoping to leave this weekend, but you just never know what the refinery will try to pull next! Since our plans are up in the air, Friday was my last day at school. I hated saying bye a few days early, but when it gets to the very end of the job, it really is "maybe tomorrow". I didn't like the idea of going in on Friday and telling them that I didn't know if I would even be there Monday. That just isn't fair. Looking back, I suppose I could have gone in Monday, Tuesday and even today, but I didn't know that on Friday. I really thought I'd be packing Monday. Wishful thinking, right? I had such a wonderful 'send off' that I didn't want to go back in on Monday and say "Psych! I'm still here"! They didn't get the idea that we really don't know when we are leaving.
Friday was such a great day for us at school. I normally didn't go in on many Fridays because lately, especially since school started back up in June, only 2-3 kids would show up. With me included, there would be 3 teachers helping 2-3 kids. I expected the same, except for a few kids whom I begged their parents to bring them explaining that Friday was my last day. I can be selfish and want to see them once more, right? Well, Neena took care of all that for me! She called all the parents and
TWELVE kids showed up! I just kept thinking.. man, this is a big class for a Friday! Then, one of the kids that Kat and I helped last semester who is now in mainstream school even came. I talked to her mother for a bit and thanked her for bringing her. She said Neena called (thats when I found out the reason for so many kids showing up, lol) and she wanted to bring Nandana one more time to see the kids and say bye to me. How sweet is that?
The morning went the same as always and after their potty break, we just played on the floor with all the kids. It gave me the chance to love on all of them one last time! I passed out sweets (that's the tradition here...sweets for everything!) right before the kids left. Ijo's grandpa was running behind picking up him so I held him a bit longer. Mentally, he's right at his age. He just has physical problems that prevent him from talking or having a lot of movement. I was telling him that if his grandpa didn't show up that I would take him with me!! He got really excited :) I told him that I couldn't do that because his family would miss him too much, but that I would keep in touch with his mom and Neena so I'd always know how he was doing. I think he was the only one that understood that I was leaving. His dad lives in Dubai while working so the teachers told him that's where I was going on a plane. I got a phone call from Neena on Monday afternoon saying that he cried all morning. There is a new volunteer that has lighter hair and must remind him of me. He was upset because of someone new being there and me not being there. Neena warned me that would happen, but it just broke my heart to hear that.
The boys, Ijo and Akshay pose in their chairs that Kat and I bought them. :) I really wish Kat was still here in India to see them in person, but thankfully one of us is still here. I sent her photos of the chairs and I am just glad I could see it through!
My little Annmol.... I'm going to miss her always climbing onto my lap. Seriously, she won't go to anyone else! I was even teasing her a bit and tried to get her to sit by herself, but she immediately turned around and sat on me. So sweet :)
Monica was in a kissing mood today! She was loving on Safa all afternoon. She did get a new band to help with her huge glasses, but is having another eye surgery in August. I gave them the business card to the place where I found proper glasses for small children. I hope they take her after her surgeries are done.
Nandana and her silly faces! She wouldn't smile and look at the camera at the same time! She is the student now in mainstream school that came back for the day. Her mother is really nice and actually wanted to take this photo. She is doing well in normal school and did not want to sit on her old chair for Neenas class!! She did okay just walking around and helping Remya.
I had a really hard time saying bye to Neena and Remya. Neena has been like a second mom to me while I've been here. She even brings me in some of her lunch to try! I bought her a webcam so she can download Skype and hopefully we can stay in touch. I am friends with her daughter, Anna, on Facebook so we can at least stay in contact that way. Remya is having a baby in November and I made them promise to send me a photo! All three of us were crying by the time I was saying bye.

One day last week we painted with the kids again. They love it so I didn't think it was odd that we were painting for the second time recently. Right before leaving, they gave me the posters the kids painted! The kids did hand prints on this one and then Francis (on a recent post playing chess with Alexander) drew the flowers connecting the hand prints. The other one is just their own artwork of smudges with Francis drawing in the black leaves and flowers. We don't even have a house yet but I'm already thinking of where I could put these. What a sweet gift that I will always treasure!


Saying goodbye to the vocational students was also hard! Those kids are so determined and hard working. I will really miss making bags with them. Okay, maybe not the bag making part.. but I will miss them! This was the best photo that turned out. With so many people in it, it is hard to get everyone to look at the same time! Warren and Rachel are on the far left - they are volunteers from Northern Ireland here for a month. We've hung out with them quite a bit. It's always an interesting night! They still have a few more weeks and Rachel is helping Neena so I've been getting updates from her. They are both wonderful with the vocational students as well. I think the school likes having a tall man around for the older boys and Rachel is great with her English teaching!
Alexander is by Rachel and is looking at Warren...haha. Friday was also his last day. He is a pysio therapy student who was only here a month. He seemed to really enjoy it!
Sarah is in the middle by me...well, my head. lol. She came about a month ago and is leaving tomorrow. Everyone seems to come and go while we are still here! She's been a lot of fun to hang out with and has joined us on many nights out here! Hopefully we can all meet up again soon!
It was a really emotional day for me! I didn't think I'd cry that much, but I just couldn't help it. We might get another assignment in India and then I'd have the chance to visit, but the thought of possibly never seeing the kids again really hurt. This was such an amazing opportunity for Kat and I to help at the school and something that I will never forget! I like to think that not only did I volunteer, but I made a difference. I know they made a difference in my life. :)